In my Constellation group recently we decided to explore the hidden Soul dynamics in the relationship between men and women. Thought it was a short exploration, it was deep, looking at rage, perpetrators, grief, ancestors and more. Here are some highlights: Women – Wanting to connect with, protect and explore their sexuality. Turning inward. Disgusted […]
The inner work necessary to build a SUCCESSFUL Family Constellation BUSINESS
Let’s Talk About Something Important The inner work necessary to build a SUCCESSFUL Family Constellation BUSINESS To me this is a critical conversation to NORMALIZE the journey and let facilitators know – It’s okay, this is part of the journey to growth and success. My Story – My Collapse (A Long Time Ago…) For 8 […]
Inner Child Work & Family Constellation Facilitation
Family Constellation Facilitation and Inner Children This was written for my Sage Business Advice Family Constellation group, but I thought I would share it here also… Inner Child Work More and more I am seeing that Inner Child Work could be the BIGGEST block to your Family Constellation facilitator success. Not doing this work could […]
Facilitators: The Indicating Element in Family Constellation work – Do you use it?
Facilitators: The Indicating Element in Family Constellation work Do you use it? I doubt it because I think I made it up When I am conducting an intake I always ask 2 questions, the standard ones What’s the struggle in life you’re bringing & How would your life look differently if you received a good […]
Codependents Struggle With Relationships
Codependents Struggle With Relationships ~ Mainly because they lose themselves in them. ~ They choose wounded people and try to save them ~ It’s super hard for them to speak their truth ~ Many times they don’t even know their truth (Their needs, desires & wants) ~ Setting boundaries terrifies them ~ They avoid conflict […]
Are You Carrying Mother’s Burdens?
Carrying Mother’s Burdens? Loyalties to Mom that cost us dearly & Dysfunctional patterns I’ve seen healed in Family Constellation work. I believe at the deepest levels we love our mothers and fathers dearly. Sometimes this love and what is asked of us (unconsciously) costs us dearly. Here are some patterns I’ve worked with and seen […]
Constellations & Trauma (For Facilitators)
Perhaps The #1 Mistake We Can Make With Family Constellation Work (For Facilitators) I’ve re-traumatized clients, perhaps you have too? But it’s been a few years! Here’s the mistake I made and what I did about it… (Overgeneralized) What was in the Field was too much for my clients and they were over-stimulated. They went […]
You Must Face Your Pain To Heal
Is This The Most Important Human Skill You Can Develop? I believe one of the GREATEST skills we can develop as humans is strengthening our ability to face our pain and feel it fully. Developing this skill will change everything in your life. This is incredibly difficult in our American capitalist culture which tells us […]
The Business Of Constellations: Staying Connected (What Nobody Talks About)
The Business of Constellations I’ve shared previously that we have to learn both business AND Family Constellation work to be successful facilitators. What I’ve not spoken about is something it took me years to learn AND it’s important. Staying in Connection – More Than Just Our Clients In addition to staying in connection with our […]
Little Kids, Basketball & Family Constellations
Little Kids, Basketball & Family Constellation Work You know the little boy, the one who carries his basketball everywhere. This is the future superstar, the one who grows up and does great things. His love of the game is so strong, he can’t do anything else. He picked up the game at a very young […]