Building A Family Constellation Business Is Difficult
If you’re reading this page you’re probably a student or facilitator. You may already know this, but not many trainers will tell you:
To SUCCESSFULLY bring Constellation work to the people,
you have to build & manage a business &
this is JUST AS DIFFICULT as learning to facilitate.
Both facilitation and learning business skills (entrepreneurship) could be 4-year college degrees.
If you don’t learn the business side of Family Constellation facilitation you can HIRE OUT the work you need done. But, there are still some things you will want to do yourself, such as writing your own website copy so people feel your voice and energy.
But, most things can be hired out.
I recently paid someone $500 to build my website and it was done in 3 days. Some of you would LOVE to have a new and updated website in 3 days for $500.
This page is dedicated to SUPPORTING YOU to become a SUCCESSFUL Family Constellation Business owner.
I Care Because
I’ve been there. I’ve been in this business for 20 years, first as a Holotropic Breathwork facilitator and now as a Family Constellation facilitator.
I’ve charged clients $20 to receive a Constellation facilitated in my living room.
I’ve undercharged for my Holotropic Breathwork ~ because of my loyalty to the poor and FEAR of asking for what I was worth. My inner terror was – If I really ask for what I want, I’ll be rejected. Ah yes… “the mother wound.”
I was also scared of being seen and failing publicly. And at one point my inner little boy froze and I was unable to work for 8 months.
I care because I’ve been there and I know how hard it is to work past these blocks.
And the expansion of Family Constellation work is important to me. The more facilitators who SUCCEED the greater the expansion of our work. The greater our success, the greater benefit for our planet and humanity.
There Are 2 Sides To Your Business Success
The 1st side is you doing the inner work necessary to succeed.
This requires that you remove the blocks to charging what you are worth. That your needs to get met.
You will need to feel safe BEING SEEN.
We must face and overcome fears of failure and perfectionism.
We must make sure the inner child feels safe.
And we must NOT take on too much responsibility for impacting our clients positively or negatively. Many times called the “facilitator stance.”
The 2nd side of business success is learning business skills.
The how and why of growing and managing your business.
How & where to market. Should you rent a space? Do you want to work online or in person. What makes more sense for you? What type of event structures should you lead – evening events, 1-days, weekend events or longer.
How much do you need to earn?
Should you theme your events when you market or write to the greatness of Family Constellation work. (Hint: You should theme your events).
Is an email list important?
Can you pay for advertising?
The importance of a website
You need to succeed at both of these.
Support Is A Key To Success
You got SUPPORT to learn Family Constellation work. You didn’t do it on your own. You reached out to a trainer.
You get support when you go to a doctor, when you get your tires changed, when you cut your hair!
But most Constellation facilitators don’t get SUPPORT when building their business. Why not? Is this true for you?
I’ve spent years in therapy. Many of these sessions focused on my business blocks. (My fear of being bigger, of overwhelm, etc.)
I received 2 years of coaching support with Dan Cohen. I’ve taken training programs, I’ve read 100’s of business books.
All of these brought healing or taught me what I needed to learn to build my business.
Getting SUPPORT is perhaps the #1 key to your business success.
Constellation Business Coaching - I Can Support You
I offer business coaching to Family Constellation facilitators. This is a passion of mine. The cost is low. I know many new facilitators struggle financially and I enjoy discussing business.
These are 1-hour sessions. It is $99. I offer a sliding scale of $49 if you are from a country with a lower income level. You judge the situation and decide.
What do you want to talk about? What would SUPPORT YOU?
Some of the most important conversations are – how to ATTRACT CLIENTS, the best events to meet your income needs, resources that SUPPORT YOU, how to can build a website for $250, overcoming money blocks and more.
If you want to succeed get support! I’ve reached out to business coaches, therapists and psychics, all with the intent of growing a SUCCESSFUL Constellation business.
If you are drawn to being supported by me, reach out.
You can pay and reserve an hour coaching call with me here. For the session we’ll work out a time that supports you.
1-Hour Coaching Session
1-Hour Coaching Session ($49 Sliding Scale)
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Jack's Tips For Success:
#1 Receive guidance from successful mentors and coaches. Not your peers & not from trades.
#2 Surround yourself with successful people.
#3 Pay People to do the things that you don’t want to do
#4 Business success takes two things
– Personal work to get past your emotional & energetic blocks
– Skill building in the areas of business specific to your needs
#5 You must become comfortable with $. Start walking around with $500 cash in your purse or wallet.
#6 Learn if fear of Failure blocks you on your journey
#7 Perfectionism is a poison. Here’s the book that healed my perfectionism and changed my life – Mindset The New Psychology Of Success By Carol Dweck
#8 How do you take in information to learn and grow? YouTube, Podcasts, Books?
#9 Different Family Constellation event structures that lead you to success
#10 Do you charge enough to honor your own time and needs? (You must learn to ask for what you need).
#11 What is the best way or place for you to meet people? Something that stirs your Soul?