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Sexual Energy Is Sacred Energy

Life force flows through our sexual energy. It sustains us. It creates. It connects us to something far greater than ourselves.

I’ve heard it said that at the moment of orgasm, we come closest to experiencing our oneness with the Divine. And consider what else happens in that moment — another Soul has the opportunity to enter this planet. We literally open a portal through which a fully developed consciousness begins its human journey.

What is more magical than this?

When our sacred center is corrupted by trauma, the effects ripple through everything — shame, depression, disconnection, a depletion of the very life force that sustains us.

In this training module we’ll restore the purity of sexual energy. Enhance the beauty of our Divine Connection and transform shame & guilt, while reclaiming innocence. 

Our Challenge As Facilitators

As Family Constellation facilitators, we’re given the profound privilege of supporting others to heal their deepest wounds.

Sexual harm is among the most delicate territory we address.

With Constellations, we’re asked to hold two levels of reality simultaneously – The Human & Soul.

On the human level — sexual abuse is a terrible violation. There’s a perpetrator and a victim. The pain is real, and it must be fully honored.

On the Soul level — something else is present. Love. Divine order. The experience, however painful, is in some way part of a Soul’s Divine Journey.

The art of facilitation is honoring both — without diminishing the pain, and without rushing to the spiritual perspective before the client is ready.

True transformation does not happen primarily at the psychological level. It happens at the level of Soul and Spirit.

We validate the trauma. We witness the innocence that was taken. And when the client is ready — we gently open the doorway back to the Sacredness of sexuality.

Can There Be Love in Sexual Abuse?

This is one of the most difficult questions this work asks us to hold.

Here’s my own experience.

When I was 16, my mother was in the depths of a three-year depression. One day, lying in her bed, she asked me — half-jokingly, half-not — “Jack, would you make love to me?”

Nothing physical happened. Yet an overly sexualized energetic dynamic existed between us. I was the “little husband,” carrying an emotional and sexual energetic connection with her.

On the human level, I was violated. My sexual energy was taken, and it damaged my later relationships.

On the Soul level — I loved my mother deeply. She was suffering. And in the way children do, I gave what I could — not understanding the cost. I also came to understand that part of what I carried was atonement for a previous lifetime in which I had been a perpetrator. Through this, karmic balance occurred.

The wounds I carried helped shape me into the healer I am today. In that sense, my path was perfect — even while it was painful.

Can I hold both truths at once?
Can we, as facilitators, hold both?
Can our clients eventually hold both?

This is delicate, sacred work. It asks everything of us.

In this training module we learn this delicate holding for our clients and ourselves. 

What We Know About Sexual Trauma

• Shame becomes a hidden current that touches every relationship and life expression
• Sexual abuse robs a person of their innocence — a loss far deeper than most realize
• Trauma can shut down the sexual center entirely, or create compulsive, harmful patterns
• Unresolved trauma can sometimes create patterns that unintentionally harm others — a cycle this work helps break
• Holding tightly to victim-perpetrator identity will block the deepest levels of healing
• Men are far less likely to speak about their experiences than women — and need particular care
• Sometimes what you feel in your body belongs to your ancestors, and can be lovingly honored and returned
• Perpetrators must be given their rightful place in the family system — otherwise these dynamics pass down the generations

I Propose To You

That the deepest connection we can have with another human is through sexual intimacy. That this is our greatest potential for intimacy on the planet. And that when the sexual experience is tarnished through sexual shame, carried perpetrator & victim energies, blocks to love and intimacy, these diminish what could be our most beautiful and healing human experience – SACRED UNION.

In a way, the goal of our training is our return to innocence. (Illustrated in this YouTube video & song here)

To release and transform energies in our sexual centers that are NOT in alignment with our Highest Selves. 

That we strengthen our capacity to embody pure and Divine energies.

& SUPPORT our clients to safely and lovingly express their sexual natures.

Vulnerability ~ The Pink Elephant

Because of the shame involved in sexual trauma, people are afraid to do the work. The feeling of “exposure” can be too scary!

And yet, shame festers when we hide it. (Check out this article I wrote many years ago: The key to healing shame.)

Shame will then comes out in dysfunctional and self-sabotaging ways.

Healing shame requires vulnerability. Modeling this vulnerability starts with US as facilitators. We bravely do the work first. Imagine our vibration if we haven’t done the work, but ask our clients to. 

As Family Constellation facilitators we get to hold the space for the deepest and most beautiful healing for our clients. Doing our personal healing work gives us the Soul-Strength to hold these Fields with Love & Light. 

In This Training Module

• Student-Facilitators practice leading these Constellations in a safe, supervised setting
• We focus on our own personal growth and healing
• We learn to hold these most vulnerable spaces for our clients
• We deepen our capacity for Divine Sexual Intimacy
• We watch and learn what brings the greatest healing for our clients
• We support them/ourselves to reclaim innocence
• We model giving back ancestral trauma energies we are carrying for those harmed in our lineages
• We lovingly remove any entanglements with victims & perpetrators
• We focus on the increase in Life-Force that comes through our purified sexual centers
• We learn to see our journeys around sexuality as one of Divine Perfection, not human trauma

Next Steps

You’ll leave with more than tools. You’ll leave with a felt sense of your own innocence restored — which is the only real foundation from which to guide others.

Reserve your healing spot today. Details below.

When you’re ready, your place is waiting.