Is your chronic illness rooted in childhood trauma? (It may be!) Here’s the bigger question… If you heal your childhood trauma, grieve the pain, can this bring physical healing? Yes! If you’ve suffered with Chronic Illness for years, even decades and haven’t received relief from the Western medical model – This article is written for […]
Blind Constellations: What I like, what I don’t Back in 2008 when I began learning Family Constellation work with Mark Wolynn and Suzi Tucker, Mark shared, “One of the ways Constellations heal is they give the client a new inner picture of their family story.” Mark was alluding to an inner image we all have […]
Family Constellation Facilitators … It takes a special breed to facilitate Family Constellation work and Facilitators are unique. A blend of Shaman, Psychotherapist and philosopher. Constellation facilitators deal with the deepest levels of human suffering, hold a group field, stay connected to their client all while unraveling a Soul puzzle. It is beautiful work, but […]
A few years back I facilitated a series of constellations over a month or two. They felt really good in the moment, my clients were happy, the group seemed happy, everyone left smiling. I patted myself on the back – a job well done. Until the phone calls came in “Jack, I’ve been feeling really […]
SPEAK YOUR TRUTH: Overcome the fears that block you from expressing your truth in relationships and life It Takes Practice It’s practice, repetition and guidance that allows you to fully and confidently express who you are in your relationships. Some of you got this practice in childhood and naturally carry these skills into adulthood. […]
The Importance Of Support: A Key To Your Healing & Growth Taking in the warm love of friends A Truth About Our Families For those we loved in our families who weren’t able to grow past their wounds and heal, (our mothers, fathers, grandmothers and grandfathers), one of the biggest reasons they couldn’t heal was […]
Feeling Shame: Healing Shame Shame is a bit like mold; mold loves wet, damp and musty places where it can grow and spread. To stop the spread of mold it must be brought into the open. Mold doesn’t like sunlight; it’s too open, airy and fresh. If exposed to sunlight, it will retreat and find […]
The Burdens We Carry For Our People, Why We Carry Them, & How To Stop One of the clearest things I’ve seen in Family Constellation work is this: What has been rejected by your parents and your grandparents will show up in your generation and your children’s generation. Its part of our ancestral […]
Repeating the sticky, dysfunctional family patterns? Here’s the glue that binds you, and its probably not what you think… We carry points of connection with our mothers, fathers, grandmothers, grandfathers & beyond. These appear as family patterns. These points of connection are based on our love for our family, they’re mostly unconscious, are very strong […]
“One of the BIGGEST challenges we have as humans, perhaps our biggest challenge: is fully feeling our emotions. All of them. This is hard!” ~ Jack Blackwell Your hero’s journey? I believe that avoiding feeling our full emotional experience is a inherent challenge of of being human. I also believe that to embrace everything you […]
