In my Constellation group recently we decided to explore the hidden Soul dynamics in the relationship between men and women. Thought it was a short exploration, it was deep, looking at rage, perpetrators, grief, ancestors and more. Here are some highlights: Women – Wanting to connect with, protect and explore their sexuality. Turning inward. Disgusted […]
Archive | Family Constellation work
Are You Carrying Mother’s Burdens?
Carrying Mother’s Burdens? Loyalties to Mom that cost us dearly & Dysfunctional patterns I’ve seen healed in Family Constellation work. I believe at the deepest levels we love our mothers and fathers dearly. Sometimes this love and what is asked of us (unconsciously) costs us dearly. Here are some patterns I’ve worked with and seen […]
Rejecting our parents comes at a high cost!
I SOULFULLY wish everyone knew how important our connections with mom & dad are… The Cost Of Rejecting Our Parents Rejecting our parents comes at a high cost: ~ What we reject in our parents, we reject in ourselves. ~ We’ll also reject these aspects in our children. ~ When we reject our parents we […]
The 5 Biggest Wounds, Challenges & Possibilities Facing Men
Lack of a vision and a reason for being Men do best when they have a meaningful cause, be it protector, builder/creator, artist. Men need to be bringing their gifts to the world in some way. A man who is not bringing his gift to the world, is denying the world of something beautiful. This […]
Family Bonds & Constellation Work
The Energetic Bonds Within Your Family There are energetic bonds and energetic patterns that exist within all family systems. Either these bonds are bringing you health, wellness and vitality or they’re burdening you, weighing you down and impacting your life-success. Sometimes the family bonds are broken leaving you without life-force, strength & vitality. Healthy Family […]
Family Constellations & Chronic Illness
Is your chronic illness rooted in childhood trauma? (It may be!) Here’s the bigger question… If you heal your childhood trauma, grieve the pain, can this bring physical healing? Yes! If you’ve suffered with Chronic Illness for years, even decades and haven’t received relief from the Western medical model – This article is written for […]
I facilitated some good Constellations but the results ~ not so good!
A few years back I facilitated a series of constellations over a month or two. They felt really good in the moment, my clients were happy, the group seemed happy, everyone left smiling. I patted myself on the back – a job well done. Until the phone calls came in “Jack, I’ve been feeling really […]
Stop Carrying Responsibility for Mom & Dad’s Issues
The Burdens We Carry For Our People, Why We Carry Them, & How To Stop One of the clearest things I’ve seen in Family Constellation work is this: What has been rejected by your parents and your grandparents will show up in your generation and your children’s generation. Its part of our ancestral […]
Following in the Family “Miss-steps”? (Ouch! The Dysfunctional Family Patterns)
Repeating the sticky, dysfunctional family patterns? Here’s the glue that binds you, and its probably not what you think… We carry points of connection with our mothers, fathers, grandmothers, grandfathers & beyond. These appear as family patterns. These points of connection are based on our love for our family, they’re mostly unconscious, are very strong […]
Blind Spots: We Need To See To Heal
Holotropic Breathwork and Family Constellations have one important thing in common. They’re both structured so that you access your Spiritual nature and then this part of you, your deepest wisdom, guides your healing process. Here’s the greatest reason I can offer you to access your Spiritual nature You and I have blind spots. (Sorry to […]